Quote of the Day

"If you think you can, you can.  And if you think you can't, you're right." - Mary Kay Ash

Confidence is such a tricky thing.  So many factors go into creating or undermining it.  And it reveals itself in a variety of forms.  Many have to manufacture it, by creating a persona of bravado, charm, or wittiness.  Others have had it instilled in them since they were young, and simply accomplish what they seek out to do, and go about their business quietly.  Both types of person understand the importance of confidence.

Many people struggle with confidence, however.  They have tremendous talent.  They are strong, persuasive, and possess great mental discipline.  Yet they doubt themselves.  Sometimes this comes from an environment in which they are constantly told "you can't do that," or "you're not going to accomplish anything."  These words have been internalized to the point the person, whether they know it or not, believes them.

Others are afraid of the responsibility and expectations that comes along with accomplishment.  Once they have achieved something, they know others will expect more.  From their way of thinking, it's better to not accomplish anything rather than to have increasing expectations that you won't be able to meet.

But to truly be successful, in any endeavor, you have to have a level of self-confidence that will allow you to continuously push the envelop of your abilities and talents.  The abilities you possess are gifts to be used, not hidden.  Personal growth only comes from stretching our boundaries. 

If you struggle with self-confidence, take a moment to ask yourself why.  Is it because the people around you undermine it?  If so, find new friend - ones that will be encouraging to you.  If its family that is the problem, begin reading, listening, and watching materials that will help you develop that self-confidence. 

At All American Martial Arts, we believe that every individual has the potential for great success.  If you need a place where you can come and be encouraged, and where you can develop self-confidence, we encourage you to check us out.  We know the value of self-confidence to every individual, and will help you achieve goals you never new were possible.